We went back to my inlaws, had dinner then went out to buy an air mattress to sleep on in the basement.
Today I had a baby appointment in the morning and Chris's mom took the kids to the movies then Chris and I had to go to the closing. I tried so hard to not cry but I did at the very end and I ended up giving the girl a hug (she's pregnant too and due next week). Someone said "can you even reach each other with those bellies??" It was just the perfect thing to make me laugh. I think I made her cry too.
Chris and I went to lunch at Bertucci's after then I tried to do a little retail therapy at the Vineyard Vines warehouse sale but they really didn't have anything good. I went back to my inlaws to an empty house. Chris's mom had taken the kids to her friends pool. I made the most of the quiet and cool AC.
Finding a house is continuing to be impossible. Anything in our budget is either too small, needs too much work, or is on a main road. Everyone thinks we are being too picky but the move in ready houses, in quiet neighborhoods, in our budget are more like first time home buyers homes which is what we just left! We are in our 40s now are are ready for a grown up house that we are proud to have our friends and family over to. I think we deserve that much.
The plan is to stay with Chris's parents until closer to my due date so that I can be with my parents after the baby is born. I'll be recovering from surgery, hopefully nursing a newborn, and possibly dealing with postpartum depression so I will want to be with my mother for all of that.